Second Chances


This week, the reflection I had was caused by my weekend trip to Gdańsk. I went there with my parents, who once studied in Gdynia, and used to visit Gdańsk’s old town on regular basis - but it was 20 somenthing years ago. Since then the only place they’ve been to in Gdańsk was the Long Street and one or two close to it, because they never really planned on spending more time for visiting the old town, as they were so sure there’s nothing more worth seeing than the places they go to. Now, after so much time, they (and I) have spent more than an hour in this city’s old town and were simply charmed by its beauty, style, and atmosphere, especially the riverside, which they always thought was not worth seeing, because 25 years ago, from when they remembered it it wasn’t. This led me to a conclusion, how commonly such scheme can be seen - Judgement once set isn’t so easy to be change, which may cost you losing some many incredible aspects of life just because you once got a bad impression of something and never found enough energy to give it a second chance.

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  1. This is very true especially dangerous when our opinions concern people. A stereotype once formed is often unbreakable.

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  2. I think the worst thing about this is that it's incredibly difficult to "give" someone this energy to give something a second chance. People often trust their old experiences more. I wonder if there is a simple way of convincing someone to try and check out something again to see if it's any better than it used to be.

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  3. I think, that loss of time and disappointment when it turns out sth/sb didn't change is what disencourages people from giving the second chance.

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  4. Also, you often tell many people your negative impressions from the past what can stop them from seeing something amazing. The stereotype can influence many lifes.

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